interesting anecdote
last night at phuture, i was talking to this tranny, when it struck me. i felt quite awkward because... i didn't know how to refer to the person! i remembered a joke my pe teacher cracked about a 'she' and a 'him' being a 'shim', but no that didn't seem very apt. so i threw caution to the wind and asked

"hey, how the hell do i refer to you? he or she or what??"

to which the tranny replied-
"honey, what do YOU think?" as he/she/shim flaunted his/her/shers chesty assets.

"ooooh. ha ha. i geddit. ok. sorry ma'am!"